We have heard enough of this already as the youth in campus
and colleges today, that its normal to kiss many frogs in our path of getting
that lady or that man to be with. That we have to test different waters before
we get a well we can swim in the long run, but, I choose to read from a
different script all together.
In this time and generation, only an insane man can choose
to conform to this comfort zone in his/her approach to dating. With the
voluminous literature on the need to maintain sanctity of the body as the
children of the Father above and the widespread campaigns on healthy living
with regard to our reproductive health, it’s a dishonor to jump the line with
regard to zipping of our trousers. It is also a disgrace to get your dreams and
aspirations cut short or getting our paths to living our lives as per that
childhood vision just because we fail to heed to writings in the Holy Book on
eating the forbidden fruit before walking down the aisle.
Truth be told, good things come to those who wait upon the
Lord. Yes, we have to ensure we get to have partners who are our ideal
personalities but this does not mean getting overboard to experiment sexually.
As a matter of fact, sexual encounters as a couple can be made more fulfilling
with both partners getting to sit and discuss on how they can get to satisfy
each other openly for they, at this point, have each other as one. How can we
get to better our sexual life in a multiple partner setting?
Again, if the love between the two of you is true, then
waiting will not be an issue, it will just come automatically, after all true
love WAITS. Two guys in love can get to understand each other and bond better
to that extent that one can complete the others sentence without having to make
love. Nevertheless, they will have ample time to pursue their dreams and
aspirations first for a better future and family life at that appropriate time.
I choose to read from this script: “If you are in love, you
will be true to each other, you will wait”
