The Dream Lady Every Man Needs...........

Finding a good woman is not an easy task, especially in an era where some women are master manipulators who abuse their female body which is the temple of God. We have been made to believe relationships in Eger never go past keep left. 

Still, there are a lot of good women out there with traits that would make any guy happy.

1. God Fearing

It is very important to date a woman who believes in God and the bible teachings. We all know that God comes first before anything else thus the need to believe and trust in him and the choices we make. A God fearing woman will guide you using the scripture in times of difficulties or happiness.

2. The Independent Lady

The independent woman has a real life of her own and is happily going in her own positive direction. She’s the type who wants a man in her life, but doesn’t need a man in her life.

3. The Loyal Lady

This type of woman is ready to go to war with you and take on whatever obstacle life presents. She’s not the type that will be checking out other guys, but will keep her attention focused on you, the man in her life. Whether or not she’s up for first prize in a beauty contest, this type of woman will lift you up when you need it, provide constructive criticism to make you a better man and be on your side no matter what.

4. The Sweetheart

The sweetheart is a woman who’s positive, compassionate and gentle. She’s a genuine person who considers you in every situation. She’s always truly happy to see you and you find yourself looking forward to spending time with her. This type of woman is pretty rare, but if you can find one, you’ve got a real treasure on your hands.

5. The Low Maintenance Lady

The low maintenance woman is rational, not emotionally clingy, is comfortable doing things on her own and does not require constant reassurances. She really doesn’t care about how much money you have — she just likes you for you and not for what she can take from you. Unlike the high maintenance woman, she accepts herself as she is and is comfortable with her good points, as well as her bad ones. And she feels the same about you.

It's time to get past keep left people

Ray Of Hope

When those you love choose to open a new chapter in your life. that of betrayal, your problem here turn into a security blanket you can least do without, but hope is alive.....difficulties are there but despite these you still got a destiny to fulfill.





You can achieve this by giving Christ a chance to come into the dark alleys of your life however scared you could be. Let him deliver you from the residue of the past. Let him offload your burden of worry and turn your mess into a miracle. Let his complete healing penetrate the whole of you.



We may not be able to change where we've come from but we can change our destination. Give God a chance to turn your mess into a miracle by letting Him offload you the burden that is worry. Give up yesterday's sorrows and embrace tomorrow as it comes with all vigor. For GOD is our only ray of hope, he can turn struggles into stars

If only we talk over this………………………………………………………………

I know I have played a fool here; I seem to have taken that position of a desperate dude seeking your attention. It’s true that I have become possessive and too demanding, your inbox is full of my texts, your call log screams my caller ID, you timeline full of my tags and mentions and your heart full of my words. But again, is it a crime for me to spare that precious unit in my phone all for you? Is it wrong to say hi through that text? Is it wrong to call on you at the most unexpected hour?

It’s not that am stooping too low for you, not that my mindset is all around you, not that am too idle. Not that I can’t see beyond the horizon. It is because I have made up my mind to be true to you and only you, because I choose to trust you and to give my all in this relationship. I want the best for us and this is the very reason I don’t want to downplay the chance you gave me in your life. I choose to believe that we need to be together at any possible instance, that we ought to keep in touch at any available opportunity for the best of us, yes, me and you.

Sincerely, I expect that you be there for me just as I try my best to be there for you, to be that listening ear always, to feel the care from deep within. I know I ain’t perfect, but, I give my best into this relationship. If only we would be open to one another, open up on that thorn that is a threat to our happiness, work out a strategy to make our differences our strength, we would be okay and our hearts will be at peace. It takes both our efforts to be happy and strong so as to counter any hurdle, to overcome those hurdles that will definitely be in store for us in this walk to a future with you.

If only we talk over this………………………………………………………………

“If you are in love, you will...............

We have heard enough of this already as the youth in campus and colleges today, that its normal to kiss many frogs in our path of getting that lady or that man to be with. That we have to test different waters before we get a well we can swim in the long run, but, I choose to read from a different script all together. 

In this time and generation, only an insane man can choose to conform to this comfort zone in his/her approach to dating. With the voluminous literature on the need to maintain sanctity of the body as the children of the Father above and the widespread campaigns on healthy living with regard to our reproductive health, it’s a dishonor to jump the line with regard to zipping of our trousers. It is also a disgrace to get your dreams and aspirations cut short or getting our paths to living our lives as per that childhood vision just because we fail to heed to writings in the Holy Book on eating the forbidden fruit before walking down the aisle.

Truth be told, good things come to those who wait upon the Lord. Yes, we have to ensure we get to have partners who are our ideal personalities but this does not mean getting overboard to experiment sexually. As a matter of fact, sexual encounters as a couple can be made more fulfilling with both partners getting to sit and discuss on how they can get to satisfy each other openly for they, at this point, have each other as one. How can we get to better our sexual life in a multiple partner setting?

Again, if the love between the two of you is true, then waiting will not be an issue, it will just come automatically, after all true love WAITS. Two guys in love can get to understand each other and bond better to that extent that one can complete the others sentence without having to make love. Nevertheless, they will have ample time to pursue their dreams and aspirations first for a better future and family life at that appropriate time. 

I choose to read from this script: “If you are in love, you will be true to each other, you will wait”

You just can’t change this...........

I know this has happened to many of us, loving someone who loves another different person. This is the most painful thing to come by and live through well aware that the reality isn’t of any good to you, to your heart. That moment that you meet, your eyes get into contact with each other sending mixed signals to both of you (that’s what your mind tells you), the instant you choose to believe that that other person loves you too- only that he/she chooses not to admit this.

The worst comes when that other person loved by the one you love is your friend, your close friend of whom  a lot in common exists between you two, have shared your childhood and youthful life with. When you recall of your growing up, of the dreams and plans in life, all you can do is shy away when you meet. This is the instant you wish you never met that lady or dude you fell in love with, unaware of the fate next-door. 

You cannot really explain this, Love is sometimes so unfair for when you love you aren’t loved back and when another loves you do not reciprocate. Sometimes the thought of changing the course of this feeling comes that you wish you would be in a position to make love a one way traffic affair- which you love even if the other doesn’t love back.

Interestingly, that whom you loved tries to console your heart thanking you for the love for him/her and that if you were meant for each other, somehow you will be………….but, how?. The love of your heart adds that he/she is very sorry for having disappointed you, and, it’s here that your wound digs  deeper  in the flesh, hurt as clear as dawn, but, all you can say is “I guess I have nothing within my reach that can be instrumental in changing what is already here. This is a new dawn for me, the dawn that I will never have your heart to love and to treasure. I wish you well in your love life”

Deep inside you know you are hurt, the onset of stress, stomach ulcers and pain. But, it’s done, he/she has a life and you have your own…………you just can’t change this……………

ENEMY WITHIN

In life, challenges are part of it daily. Triumphs and failure accompany us all whether a child, teen or adult. But, we do harbor an enemy within that we have to either tame lest we fall victim to it. Its so small yet so dangerous, hidden between blades and flesh, always wet and fresh. Yes, it determines the perception we get from the society and the views aired out to the surrounding from our souls.



It can bring a hero down to zero, leave alone turning a person's stars into scars that heal not.

Therefore,

Lets take control of our lives, tame this small fireworks organ in us, use it to talk and sing peace, love, joy and harmony.

May it be our source of respect, lead us into better pastures and secure the coming days. #

Sunday Christian no more..............

That life of having to carry a Bible each Sunday , getting dressed in the best and most descent outfit in the wardrobe, that of waking up at the break of dawn so as to make it to church in time is all I am fed up with. That leading of praise and worship from the mouth and choir mastering just for pride and praise is not just worth it.

That life of being part of a church to cement membership in the multitude of Christian civilians on earth is useless; the act of ushering in church for attention is not part of me anymore, no more playing instruments just for the skillful part of it during service.

No more giving offerings and tithes all for the virtue of it being a norm- a practice inherited from our forefathers, no more shopping for the pastor and servants of God just for the efficiency of it, no more gospel raves for the fun of it and its popularity amongst the Christian youth of today.

All I yearn for is to be in communion with the Holy spirit, to be in a fellowship of believers so as to draw motivation and advice each other on keeping the Faith in God, to reduce so that God increases in me, to seek Him so as to be found by Him and never to forsake Him.

All I seek is to be led by the Holy spirit, be guided along the commandments of the Heavenly Father, to be part of the chosen generation, the royal priesthood and the servants of His vineyard in and out of seasons, in all that I do, in my thought, in my words, in what I have done and that I have failed to do.

My focus is to have Him who works in me get to continue living in me, that I get to see His coming and that His purpose in me gets to completion for I am convinced that neither height nor depth, neither evil nor demons nor any other thing in all creation shall separate me from the never ending Love of Christ, no not one.

 

It is worthy and fulfilling to be in the presence of the Lord, to be a sheep in His flock for I am certain God provides all I need to remain a believer be it lack or prosperity, full or hungry , in pain and in joy with worship as my lifestyle and prayer as my blueprint .

 I choose to follow Christ all the days of my life, a Sunday Christian no more.